Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Interview with Mari Rutkin



This week, we are lucky enough to be talking about preschool life with Mari Rutkin. 
Mari currently works as a Site Administrator for the Early Education Department of the San Francisco Unified School District, and is a passionate childhood development specialist.

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1.      In your opinion, what makes a preschool room a happy, healthy place to be?
A happy healthy preschool classroom is a place where children feel loved, respected and safe. Those classrooms are places where children are valued as individuals and where their developmental strengths and weaknesses are supported and developed. A happy, healthy preschool room helps students to build a strong foundation of knowledge that will ensure they are ready for success in school.

2.      What are some common blindspots you see with teachers?                                                                                                                                I think the biggest blind spot that I have seen is that teachers do not always engage families in their children’s education.  Building a strong relationship with open communication with families is a terrible disservice to both families and teachers in supporting student learning and development.


3.      Do you notice a correlation between happy kids and their ability to learn at school? 
Absolutely!  Children cannot and will not learn if they don’t feel both physically and emotionally safe in their environment. Children must build caring and positive relationships with their teachers in order for them to be able to learn.

4.      If you could design a classroom, what would it look like? How would the teachers behave? 
My ideal classroom would have a caring and warm feeling when you walk in the door. There should be natural light and cheerful artwork and pictures on the wall that are representative of the children in the classroom.  There should be materials and resources that are accessible to students, organized in a way to address the different developmental needs of students.  There should be a quiet or reading area where there are soft cushions for students to lounge in while they examine books and write, an area for emergent writing where students can write and draw, and an area for science and/or math. In order to enhance student’s learning opportunities, establish a number of smaller, quiet areas where children can go to explore. A preschool classroom should have designated areas for dramatic play where students can engage in social play and manipulatives where students can work with puzzles or other games. 

Teachers would create and maintain a positive climate where students feel free to take risks in their education and learning. Teachers would maintain clear communication and expectations with children and their families and encourage family involvement in both the school community and classrooms.


5.      What kinds of behavior management strategies have you seen work well in a preschool room? 
 The best behavior management strategies that I have seen work well in preschool are:
-CONSISTENCY!
-Setting clear and realistic expectations and limits
-Redirection of unsafe or unwanted behavior using both verbal and non-verbal cues
-Building conflict resolution skills
-Recognizing and dealing with inappropriate behaviors and/or strong emotions
-I’ll say it again, CONSISTENCY!

6.      What kinds of strategies would you recommend that teachers avoid? 
I would recommend teachers avoid inconsistency-specifically when it comes to recognizing and dealing with problematic behaviors in the classrooms. Teachers should also avoid planning and implementing practices or activities that are not developmentally appropriate to their students.  Developmentally Appropriate Practices or DAP refers to promoting children’s optimal learning and development by meeting children at their current developmental level both as an individual child as well as part of a group.

7.      Why do you love your job? 
Preschool offers such an amazing opportunity to address the development of the whole child. I love being to coach and support teachers so that they can provide meaningful experiences for your children and their families.  Watching relationships and skills build and develop over the course of a school or program year among students and their school communities is an incredible gift.

Monday, July 7, 2014

Positive Parenting Meetup!

Have you checked out Meetup.com? We have just launched our very first Meetup for Wednesday July 16th, at Cafe La Flore on Clement and 10th Ave. Here's our official link - http://www.meetup.com/SF-positive-parenting-group

These groups are absolutely FREE, and will be happening on the 3rd Wednesday of every month from 6:30-7:30pm. The aim of the group is to get together and talk about how to establish strong family relationships - as well as leaving time for Q&A. Our approach is customized to your needs.

We want to help San Franciscan families flourish, despite the difficulty of raising kids in this crazy city. Please go to the site and RSVP - we want to see your lovely face at the Meetup!

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Half-Day Summer Camp



Are you looking for a morning summer camp for your child?
We are offering a 9am-12pm camp for elementary aged kids!

During the summer, shorter camp days offer your child an opportunity to learn and grow with others - but also take a break in the afternoon. Our camp is focused around seeing your child change and grow, so that in itself is really hard work. If your child does better with shorter days, we have the program for you.

If you're wondering what we get up to, the Kahlon Family Services Summer Camp is based on creating concrete opportunities to develop in the specific areas of need. We customize our program to the needs of your child (and family), while working on self-regulation, self-control and understanding how to act appropriately when out in the community. We are very practical and goals-oriented in our approach, working within a structured outline, but stopping to address the needs of the moment.

If you are interested in dates and costs, please don't hesitate to contact us on info@kahlonfamilyservices.com